I watched a video on Youtube recently about a man who had died suddenly and then spent several minutes in Hell and lived to talk about it. The story was very familiar of course (there are hundreds of similar videos like it on there, some are believable some are not), but one thing he said stuck with me and probably always will. When he woke up in the hospital he asked God what he had to do to make sure he never ended up back in that horrible place. The answer he received was simple, almost too simple it seemed to me ... "Get to know Me".
When it comes right down to it that's all that really matters though isn't it. Do you know God? Do you really know what He is like? Do you have a relationship with Him? Do you know what He expects from you? Are you part of His family called the Remnant, the Bride or the House of Israel in His Word?
Scripture says in John 17:3 "This is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Yeshua the Messiah whom You have sent." God says we need to get to know Him and His Son to truly live. However, because we are created as not only physical but spiritual beings we need to get to know him spiritually, not just with a form of intellectual ascent or understanding. Colossians 1:9 talks about "being filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding" There is obviously something different going on here than just trying to comprehend God with our brain or through some dry religious traditions. Scripture shows us this work is done by God's Spirit (Holy Spirit/Ruach HaKodesh) in cooperation with the individual. "But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you" (John 14:26). He will help us as He says in this verse to get to know Him, teaching us all things about Himself.
This is all good but the question remains, how does one know that they know Him? What fruit should one who knows God expect to see in their lives? To answer these let's look at the Hebrew word for "to know", yada. The show Seinfeld of course popularized the use of that word yada, yada, yada, but in reality when used in the Tanakh (the Hebrew OT scriptures), it means several things, all of which can apply to this knowing of God.
First of all yada means an intimate, sharing love, like in marriage, "Adam knew [yada] his wife Eve, and she conceived and bore Cain…" (Genesis 4:1, 17, 25). This meaning here doesn't only apply to a sexual love or relationship but it is a dedicating of ourselves to a person so we can engage them with our love and affection. One can see in this how appropriate it is that true believers are called His Bride. In this context it's also easy to understand why throughout the scriptures God desires and tells us that this is the kind of relationship He wants with us. The trust He asks from us is similar to the trust that should be found in the marriage covenant.
Secondly, look at the Hebrew wisdom scriptures, "The righteous know [yada] the needs of their animals, but the mercy of the wicked is cruel" (Proverbs 12:10). In this case, a good person knows the needs of their animals and takes care of them; an evil person neglects the needs of their animals and shows no mercy. In other words, yada is understanding the needs of those around us and taking care of them. If we truly know God it will effect how we act in our relationships with others and how we treat people. John 14:15 says “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments." Those who truly know and love God do as He commands and demonstrates and love to do so.
Finally in Jeremiah 22:16 we have a wonderful illustration from the Lord's own prophet, "Isn’t that what it means to know [yada] me?” says the Lord" (Jeremiah 22:15-16). In this chapter, Jeremiah rebukes the king of Judah. This king had been selfishly, neglecting the poor and needy, and exploited others to build his kingdom. The LORD tells this corrupt king what it truly means to know [yada] God. 1. Doing justice, 2. Showing mercy to the poor and needy, 3. show good and righteous character. In other words, a person who knows God is faithfully living out their covenant relationship with Him in every area of their life.
In closing I can't help but think of something else the man in the video said about his experience, he said it was like he never existed, with no future hope of anything changing. He described total nothingness around him, no one else to communicate with where he was. Ultimately I think the story I heard years ago in Sunday School actually fits here. It's about a God who wanted someone who He could be in relationship with. Not just angels but beings created in His image. Children He could love and be loved by. The teacher answered our questions about that the best they could as I often wondered, was God lonely and that's why he created us? Well he hasn't chosen to tell us that or much of His motivation for doing so. Scripture does tell us He loved us and placed us in a perfect world in relationship with Him, where He breathed the breath of life into us. It tells us we rebelled against that perfect setting and that that rebellion caused the separation that brought about death and the possibility of ending up in that place of nothingness and darkness, the only place where a God who was everywhere could not be. The good news (Gospel) is that He still wanted us to exist and be in the same kind of relationship with Him. He sent His Son to die and accomplish that. He knows us and still loves us. Do we want to know Him like He asked that man?
Myles